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Chdonga
I love videogames especially old school games. I've played almost every classic and I love making parody's of it in sprite animations. If you do not like Sprite animations please go watch actual drawings on another place or at least give it a chance.

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Social Standards

Posted by Chdonga - June 11th, 2014


Whenever I see one of my friends getting engaged I suddenly get reminded that I still don't have a girlfriend.

Then I remember I'm not a girl and I don't have to follow the arbitrary social standards of getting married before my mid twenties.

Then I remember I'm a male and I DO have to follow the arbitrary social standards of getting a girlfriend before I turn twenty, then keeping her long enough to marry her before her mid twenties. With that relieving realization I realize I do not have much time left before my status as a permavirgin beta loser faggot becomes immortalized.

Stupid social standards. At least I can use them as a scapegoat for my own, often arbitrary insecurities.


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My fiancé is 31... we only met when he was 30, and we got engaged just a few days shy of his birthday. And I love him to bits.

Point is, buck the trend. You're made of much stronger mettle than this; you don't need to care about the next gossip-monger that asks you if you have a girlfriend. That ought to come in its own time, not at the behest of people.

Run your own race, set your own pace, don't worry about what everyone else is doing... those mainstreamers |: But do get out and look for someone, or at least, be ready when one appears. I always had trouble with that last bit...

Hey man, it used to be a lot younger than that many years ago. There's not much point in following any set of ideals but your own. That doesn't mean you have to exclude yourself from others, though!