Whenever I see one of my friends getting engaged I suddenly get reminded that I still don't have a girlfriend.
Then I remember I'm not a girl and I don't have to follow the arbitrary social standards of getting married before my mid twenties.
Then I remember I'm a male and I DO have to follow the arbitrary social standards of getting a girlfriend before I turn twenty, then keeping her long enough to marry her before her mid twenties. With that relieving realization I realize I do not have much time left before my status as a permavirgin beta loser faggot becomes immortalized.
Stupid social standards. At least I can use them as a scapegoat for my own, often arbitrary insecurities.